Sometimes I actually feel human nature naturally goes against this. We all know that two wrongs don’t make a right, but somehow, whenever we are wronged, our first instinct is revenge, payback. Nigerians have this saying “do me, I do you, God no go vex”…which is an extremely wrong approach to life. The bad behavior of another person definitely does not excuse your own bad behavior.
You should understand that if your loved one or significant other does something to hurt you, doing something to hurt them in return only makes things worse. You may look at it as giving them a taste of their own medicine or trying to teach them a lesson, but in truth, you will only end up digging a hole which you both won’t be able to come out from.